Suppose that, at the end of a person's life, all the recorded criticisms were transcribed onto a piece of paper---there you would have that person's real internal standard. That would then comprise a fair standard to which one could be held accountable. Would anyone, anywhere, measure up to the standard of what they criticized others for? Sometimes the things that irritate us most in other people are the very things that we ourselves are guilty of doing. We all 'see' things in others more readily.

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